Honour Killings in the Middle East
With great pride, 35- year-old Sirhan describes the way in which he shot and killed his 16-year old sister, Suzanne. Cheerful and at ease, he is completely contented to tell his story. He shot Suzanne in the head four times last March, three days after she reported to the police that she had been raped. Sirhan fully believes that the rape was Suzanne's fault - her "mistake" - regardless of the fact that it was done against her will. Although he thought he was committing a capital crime at the time, Sirhan was not deterred because he fully believes that his sister had to be killed for what happened to her in order to restore family pride. Says Sirhan ". . . it's better to have one person die than to have the whole family die from shame." The beliefs and attitudes of Sirhan are not uncommon in Jordan; unfortunately nor are they among men in North America. Women constantly have to deal with disrespect and abuse from men. Men view women as inferior, and this stifles the growth of women as a whole throughout the world. In North America, treatment and expectations of women have improved, but they are not yet at the point that women are deemed equal to men in all aspects of society. Although North American society has come a
We inhabit two completely opposite ends of the earth, but are our treatments and expectations of women that far removed from those of the Jordanian society? The ways that we view the roles of women in society are quite broad and unestablished. Women today still fight for equality and respect. The actions of others, especially men, towards women, and the pre-set standards for women in our society illustrate the extent to which we are not removed from the Jordanian society. Determination of the attitudes held by Jordanians about women and the application of them to North American society shows the extent to which our society mirrors that of the Jordanians. Both Jordanian and North American men alike seek to control women. The Arabic expression "a man's honour lies between the legs of a women" sets the stage for Jordanian men and their quest for power and dominance over women. In Jordan, men are expected to control their female relatives. If a woman strays from her man, it is commonly believed that the only way his dignity can be restored is by killing her. Jordanian men are also quite often exempt from punishment after committing an "honour killing". This results in the mentality that they have control over the lives of the women they are related to, and have the power to treat them however they wish. In North America, men constantly abuse and disrespect women. It has been proven countless times that this abuse psychologically makes a man feel powerful, and therefore in control of their lives, and the lives of the women they have relations with. North American men greatly lack respect for women because women are looked down upon in society, and it is commonly believed that a woman needs to be able to rely upon a man in order to be happy. Most women know that this belief is quite fictional, but men see it as an ally for power and abuse women because of the control they feel by believing that the woman cannot be happy without him. In both Jordan and North America, men in society quit
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Approximate Pages = 5 (250 words per page double spaced)
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