Purpose: To advantage those who, unlike me, have troubles with confidence, looks, and overall charm.

Having trouble picking up at clubs? Are you sick and tired of being the odd one out when you go to clubs, when all your friends pick up and for some reason you hesitate. If you are finding this a major problem and no matter how much you try, you still can't put yourself up to it, then this is for you.

Preparing to go to a club is the easy part. You often wear your best clothes and slap on your best deodorant to impress that girl you want. Make sure your clothing is near perfect (either your personal opinion or an opinion from the opposite sex is the best). Style your hair as best as possible and as you stare in the mirror the main thing you look for is total confidence. You have to look in that mirror and tell yourself "I'm the man!"(this is just a little hint to build up your confidence).

Upon arrival at the club walk in to make an impression. Try to enter with style without making yourself look too cocky. Walking in with at least three or four friends

Once you get rid of the girl feel free to pick up as many girls as you like and don't worry about looking like a sleaze because you will never see these girls ever again. Once you overcome your hesitation and become confident with picking up you can have competitions with your friends to see how many girls you can pick up each and have a great time. The whole idea is to overcome your fear of rejection. Once you have accomplished this you feel great.

usually gets noticed the most. As you walk in check out the girls but don't spot the one you want just yet. The first thing you should do is find a few chairs, chill out, have a smoke or drink or basically anything you feel comfortable with.

This is the hardest part of the night. Once you've selected the girl eye contact is very important. If she seems appealing you're a quarter of the way there. When you feel comfortable (which shouldn't take much longer than a minute or two, or you've hesitated for too long) approach the girl in a smooth way. Make the impression that you find her attractive (often a little smile or smirk works the best). When you approach her you have an option, you aren't going to back down now because you'll look like a total fool. The options are: a)compliment her on the way she looks and ask her to dance or b)try to either get close or grab her around the waist and then ask her to dance. If your judgment was correct she should accept your proposal, if not well you'll have to repeat steps one through five again. Remember the worst she can say is a simple no thanks.

Once you have successfully accomplished steps one through five you have a feeling of goodness about yourself and your confidence has rise

Some common words found in the essay are:
Preparation Preparing, PLAN OK, Audience Males, step optional, steps five, arrival club, girls don't, minute you've, dancing girl, feel comfortable, selected girl, dance floor, don't afraid,
Approximate Word count = 1134
Approximate Pages = 5 (250 words per page double spaced)