The Phenomenon of Mail Order Brides
United States, nineteen hundred ninety eight, is known for its vast and bountiful opportunities. Opportunities for choices, wealth, happiness, stability, etc. Citizens have the right to choose their mate, whether it be for a night or for a lifetime. With the many avenues a male can choose a mate, a certain phenomenon is taking place. A phenomenon known as choosing a mail order bride. Mail order brides are available from several areas of the world such as Russia, Africa, Latin America, Asia, China, Phillipines, Dominican Republic, and Japan. A potential groom can log on to the Internet, and search Yahoo (an Internet search engine), and see the different sites where he can view his potential brides. Upon the search, performed on October 27, 1998, Yahoo discovered 578 sites for a groom to view. Upon the search, the ages of the brides have ranged from 19 years old up to, but not limited to, 45 years old. This was discovered at www.worldmates.com. Another site, www.aprettywoman.com, pictured almost 2000 potential brides from Russia. Based upon writing pieces by Rousseau, Emma Goldman, Heidi Hartmann and Simone de Beauvoir, the growing trend can helped to be explained by asking why men would choose this avenue, discussing pot
The phenomenon of mail order brides, indirectly, is prostitution. Though the benefits are far more expendable than money. Brides place themselves on sale to have the endless opportunities available here in the United States. Freedom may be the only opportunity they seek. Brides, upon arrival, have freedom, all the freedoms you and I have. Education and multiple children may be opportunities never dreamed about in their home country. Some may be blinded by the idea of the "American Dream". Some women may be orphans, seeking an American man as a person to care and nurture them. Emma Goldman's The Traffic in Women and Marriage and Love explains the idea of marriage as a form of prostition. She says that "marriage guarantees woman a home only by the grace of her husband" (Goldman 208). Some may be scorned from a previous marriage. She mentions that "the economic and social inferiority of woman is responsible for prostitution" (Goldman 202). Most brides come from central Europe and east Asia, both of which are economically unstable. She goes on to emphasize that marriage for "monetary considerations is perfectly legitimate, sanctified by law and public opinions" (Goldman 204). Goldman continues to say that "marriage is primarily an economic arrangement" (Goldman 205). This phenomenon is a refuge for insecurity. Security is sought after through marriage and its opportunities. Marriage awards the woman with a sense of necessity. ential bride's oppression in their home countries, and by proving this phenomenon is a form of prostitution . Men choose mail order brides because of their desire for the idea of a "traditional" wife. The idea encompasses the idea of woman to be weak and passive. It also includes the idea that woman is in complete submission to man. Men want women to use their soft nature to stimulate their strength and thus massage their ego. Rousseau discusses this idea thr
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