I have been watching the television lately, and all they have been talking about how they are arresting many dads. The reason behind the arrest is over due child support. Now is that right? Most people would say yes...I feel there is many circumstances. Why should a man pay child support if he told the women he didn't want to have a kid? If you really think about it men really have no choice when it comes to the pregnancy. Whatever the women wants she gets no matter what the man says.

See I am a woman and I think it is unfair. When a women decides she doesn't want the child she can get an abortion even if the father of the child says he wants the kid and he promises to have all of the responsibility it doesn't matter. Because if the women doesn't want it she just aborts it anyway. Now if a woman gets pregnant and wants to keep the baby and the father of the baby doesn't want it. The girl still has it and the father of the baby can't do one little think about it. Is that fair?

This really makes me think, but I feel that it is only fair to give the fathers some option. Why is it okay to ruin two lives when you don't have to? When a girl gets pregnant if she feels that it is going to ruin her life she give the baby up for adoption or she just gets an abortion. But if the girl wants the child and the father can not handle it what is it okay to ruin his life. Many people well say well they should have been careful, but really no matter how careful you are something can always happen. And what just because the women has to carry it therefore he has no say in the child's life. I feel that a guy can't make a girl get ride of it but he has a right of taking care of it. I also feel the girl can't get an abortion if the guy is willing to raise the child. And if a girl is going to get an abortion there needs to be a signature from both the mother and the father of the baby.

ve been thinking of many ways that could help the situation. For both the man and the women. I think the best way at it is when the women find

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