Most Hated Father
In the book, "The Living and The Dead," by Sharon Olds the author makes writes poems about her view on images of life and death and what she associates each with. This anthology seems to be mostly influenced by her family, from her hated father and grandfather, to her growing children. Olds finds inspiration to associate life and death with her relatives.In "The Living and The Dead" Sharon Olds breaks the book into sections, starting first with a section on the dead, with subsections on public and family poems. In the public section one poem that stood out to me was entitled "The Death of Marilyn Monroe," for it embodied everything about the woman that I have ever heard about her. Miss Monroe is spoken of by men from her time as being an angel, and otherworldly, and this poem shows the effect that her dead body had on two men who removed her body. In the poem, the men are not sad that Marilyn Monroe is dead, but they are in awe that they got to see her beauty right before their eyes. It affected these men for the rest of their lives, so much so that other women, living women still could not equal her to them. No one could match her to them.The main characters of the poems in this book come from, presuma
bly the author's family. In the section on the Dead, Olds writes several poems; "The Guild," "The Eye," and "All The Dead That Have Come to Me, This Once" about how she hated her grandfather. "The Guild" tells of her memories of her father as a young college man sitting by the fire with his father, drinking their drinks, and sharing secrets of life. The poem is laced with a strong resentment for her grandfather, basically blaming him for the way that her father would later treat her. She calls her father an apprentice, one who is learning the ways, as she says "of oblivion", on how to be a cruel person from his father. The Guild is in a sense the passage of knowledge from one man, a father to another man, a son."The Eye" is almost a follow-up to "The Guild," because it is about the speaker's grandfather, the man the speaker loathes. The title refers to the fact that the grandfather has a glass eye (stated in both "The Guild" and "The Eye"). She sees her grandfather as a heartless man, one whom her father would adopt his awful ways. Her grandfather had no problem with putting an empty plate in front of a child for dinner, he would turn the lights out on the children when they would try to read, etc. She talks about how she pictured him at night, asleep with his wife, with one eye open, just a black void projected from him of evil. The image of the glass eye and of him being a bad man may be a parallel on the belief in the evil eye. It is believed by some that people
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