A divorce is something that no family member wishes to go through, especially if they have children together. However, in today's society more people are going through divorce. Many people separate because they are not getting along with each other and have had many difficulties trying to reside with each other, or they have just found someone else. Whatever the case may be divorce is a long and stressful event in a person's life. I've seen the effects on a family that has gone through a divorce; some families can handle it and others cannot. What makes a divorce even more difficult is when the parents have children. The children don't know what to do in this type of situation and sometimes blame themselves for what is happening. Divorce is probably the most stressful of events that someone must deal with in their life, except the death of a loved one. Divorce affects every family member. Each member may just take the pain of separation a different way. After a divorce a mother might feel relieved if she initiated it. She is probably somewhat pleased that she does not have to go through the consistent arguments that they once did. On the other hand if the father was the one that wanted the divorce, the
Adolescents, usually deal with divorce better than the younger children because they are older and tend to be more involved to what is going on with the family. The ways boys and girls at this age try to cope with divorce could be becoming more involved with themselves; one way may be going out more with their friends or working longer hours, versus staying home and helping out around the house. They also might become depressed about what has happened and maybe isolate themselves from their friends or people trying to help them, a time in which they need their friends.
Discipline might tend to become harder for the boys if they become more aggressive and uncooperative both at home and in school. They may not listen to their parents, and just do as they please. Girls usually become closer to their mother. Either spending more time with her or helping out more around the house. Both boys and girls might also suffer from poor school grades or have trouble getting along with their friends, because they might still be shocked from their parents divorce; and just not seem to hang out or talk to their friends as much. Poor school grades among children are very common, they might just not be motivated anymore or just don't care about their education.
There are some families handle divorce very well and you could never tell that it happened, expect of course you have to live with the fact that you are further away from one of your parents. Many children can handle th
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