Everyone agrees that respect is something very important and that it is the key to a lasting marriage. Annie Gottlieb wrote the essay Respect: At The Heart Of Successful Marriage and elaborated on how people interpret this in their own different ways. She basically explains exactly what the word respect means and through what methods it is applied to a marriage.
The author has made a good point but what I realized, while reading the essay, was that she doesn't explain how lack of respect can lead to separation or divorce. One main issue that needs to be considered is that when there is no respect between the married couple, it could have a bad effect on the basic family functions. Another important issue that needs to be discussed is weather there is any children in the family and what results that
The five basic family functions are socialization, sexual contact, reproduction, emotional and economic support. For example, if the husband works and constantly fights with his wife that she only looks after the children and doesn't do anything else, that shows disrespect toward her. When he cannot respect the fact that his wife wants to raise the children well and that she still contributes a lot to the family, that leads to communicational problems. Also, if either one of the two does not have any respect toward their partner but still fulfils only his/her own sexual needs, the other person will start feeling degraded and used. As soon as one couple's sex life starts falling apart, the emotional support starts fading away too. It is important that there is socialization, and most of all emotional su
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