The events leading up to Connie's abduction play an important role in creating the meaning of "Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?" In the beginning of the story, Connie's mother says, "Stop gawking at yourself, who are you? You think you're so pretty?" Connie response was to "raise her eyebrows at these familiar complaints and look right through her mother, into a shadowy vision of herself as she was right at that moment: she knew she was pretty and that was everything" (Oates, 163). Joyce Carol Oates uses this scene to imply that in Connie's mind, she sees herself as beautiful, and this implies Connie's innocence in a dangerous world.

In "Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?" , Oates' strongest asset is her ability to manipulate realistic elements to provide insight into the characters' personalit

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ies (Friedman, 10). Connie and her friends frequently made a three-mile drive to a nearby shopping plaza. On these trips they snuck off to be with older boys, and changed their appearances from that of young girls to promiscuous young ladies. Oates analysis is that "Everything about her had two sides to it, one for home and one for anywhere that was not home: her walk that could be childlike and bobbing, or languid enough to make anyone think she was hearing music in her head..." (163). Connie is attempting to overcome her plain life by living an alternate life on the weekends. Joyce Carol Oates' characters frequently fall short of their dreams, mainly because their dreams are unobtainable. Connie's dream of the American rock-star does not exist, and sadly Arnold Friend uses her innocence to his advantage (Friedman, 12).

By dissecting Connie and Arnold's desires, it becomes quite obvious their views are in sharp contrast to one another. Connie and her family are like many Americans who believe that nothing bad can ever happen to them, and the crime and hate they see on the news every night is just entertainment and a topic of conversation (Quirk). Arnold Friend se

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