relationships in teenagers in todays society
Did you ever wonder how if felt to be in love? What about being in a relationship? Many teenagers today have already experienced the hardship of being in relationship with someone and being in love. Some have not been in love but most have beenin a relationship. Instead of breaking my head trying to figure out what it is that teenagers in todays society face up to in relationships, I decided to do a little investigating. I decided to ask some of my friends to answer my questions. I sat each person alone and asked them my simple questions. Most of the answers were similar for the females and most of the males answers were the same also. I questioned eight girls and eight boys. Out of eight boys only three were in relationships. The other five were not in relationships at the time. On the other hand, half of the girls I questioned were in relationships that were serious. Just by looking at that, I realized that many teenage females today areeither in a serious relationship or is looking to be in one. Many teenage males are just looking for someone to have fun with with no strings attatched. In today's society that's hard because once you become friends with someone, you get to know eachother very well and yo
What does he/she look for in a person? WOW! Here we go. Most of the teenage boys said they look for looks, personality, honesty, understanding, sense of humor and religious background. Can you believe that? When you (the females) think of what the boys want, you picture all types of shovinistic things and maybe a good thing here or there. But when I asked the females, the answers I got were incredibly surprising! When I asked female "A", she said "What I have but a little more affectionate." Female "B" said, "Tall, muscular, lght brown hair, green-blue eyes, 1 tattoo on his wrist, he can dress, good personality, money, do what I say, he got to play football, he has to play NFL football automatically from his 3rd year." Very specific!! How about female "C"? She said, "alot in common with me, not jealous, trusting, cook and clean, good job, career orientated, and gives me my freedom." Not too bad. Listen to female "D". "Straight hair, nicely medium built, tall 6'4", great smile, green eyes, slightly tan skin, Italian, caring, honest, sincere, understanding, able to compromise, openminded, trustworthy, romantic, adventurous, fun, unpredictable." That was exxagerated!! But it's what she wants. Female "E" explained how she wants "a man taller than me, colored eyes, wavy hair, have to have a future, independent, affectionate, know what I want without saying." But what female "F" said was striking. She said " an amazing man in every way and just makes my heart jump when I see him." Both females "G" and "H" said the same things. They want him to be "tall, not jealous, open-minded, respectful, and not hairy." WELL!!!! Females expect alot from men. They are so specific and critical about what they want. It almost seems impossible to find what they want, right? NOPE!!! It's possible. Anything is possible. In conclusion I have analyzed everything that my friends have said. They all basically want the best things for themselves. They all respect eachother. Some have never been in love others have. In any given relationship, the male is always dominant. He always wants to have the control and she'll always be there. The female may sometimes be dominant, but most of the time it's the male. I believe that in most teenage relationships today, the relationship gets harder and harder by the minute. Back t
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