Being a Vietnamese-American is very tough on me, because I have to deal with two different cultures and traditions. My parents were brought up in a different culture therefore it is hard for them to adapt to a new one. I live and I am influenced by the American culture. My friends, my school, the television, the radio, and the Internet are some examples of the everyday things that influence me. On the other hand, my parents try very hard to raise me the best way they can and they do that by raising me the only way they know how. They bring me up the same way they were brought up. I understand that it is very difficult to adopt a new way and style of teaching but it is also very difficult and frustrating for me to try and understand their teaching style when I am taught otherwise at school.

The Vietnamese tradition is that parents are always correct no matter what. My opinions and ideas would not matter to them. If they believe I did something wrong I would not have a chance to explain, I must apologize immediately and except the punishment. Nevertheless the chil

I am very fortunate to have parents, who may seem clueless to this "new" culture, but they struggle to make my life easy in the future. In my family we blend both traditions. My parents try to enforce rules that would apply to me rather then to what they feel is right to do. They are not as involved in my life as I would want them to, but they would talk to me about drugs and other issues they feel are important. We are not close like families on televisions but occasionally we spend time together. We still have problems with communications because I can not fully express myself in Vietnamese and it is the same for them. I excuse them for not understanding me at times and they excuse me for not understanding them. Misunderstanding occurs in all families, it does not matter what culture or tradition that family goes by. I regularly put myself in my parents' situations and that reminds me that it is not easy for them either. In the end I learn to appreciate both culture and traditions. Especially my parents, for their effort and hard work into trying their best to make my life more comfortable.

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