2. This chapter will focus on the transitions and turning points in adulthoood.

3. The time to change our early life decisions can be done when one recognizes that they're no longer appropriate or useful.

4. Family and Cultural are what influence the manner in which we confront developmental tasks.

5. You can create a different future uf you understand ealier experiences and any

self-defeating decisions that have influenced you, it is possible to create a different future.

6. The central task when we enter young adulthood is to assume increased responsibility and independence.

7. I myself say that respect and honor for parent's are more important than individual freedom. Our parents will not be with us after we get married or after we decide to move to another town because of a career move. We will always have that respect and honor for them no matter where we are in this world. Even after they pass. Individual freedom can be good, also when we have it out parents will reflect on our actions and thoughts throughout life. And weather they are good or bad, i would have to give them the respect

8. Now what individual freedom is trying to relate to me is that even though we are independent to an aspect of supporting ourselves and not living at home, that really doesn't really mean we have the total individual freedom. Our parents still have that influence through us that helps us out in life. We will share our parents values which doesn't mean we are self driven through autonomy. Being separated from family to find our self identity isn't something done once and for all. It is a part of life that is continued throughout life.

7. I myself say that respect and honor for parent's are more important than individual freedom. Our parents will not be with us after we get married or after we decide to move to another town because of a career move. We will always have that respect and honor for them no matter where we are in this world. Even after they pass. Individual freedom can be good, also when we have it out parents will reflect on our actions and thoughts throughout life. And weather they are good or bad, i would have to give them the respect and honor.

12. Parental Ego state is the manner in which we react to situations as our parents would with others or towards us. It usually includes the shoulds and oughts of life that they have incorporated into us.

25.The "Don't talk" portion of the other 2 injunctions is the denial part of an alcoholic family hoping that the pain would go away and hoping for it to be a self resolving problem. The "Don't trust" portion is where the child is begining to be independent because they are learning not to trust or rely on anyone, especially in their family to take care of any issues in the house hold. And the "Don't feel" portion is when the autonomy of the person is to not feel anything for anyone. To avoid being able to express their feelings because they are scared the way they feel will probably not be validated. They just will not accept their feelings, these are barriers that they have built to protect them from a feared World.

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