Maintaing A Balance In You College Life
What does it mean to have a balance in life? When asked this question to people, most of them often do not have a clue. Having a balance means to me means that you are able to set challenging demands for your everyday life and are able to meet them. There are two major balances in life which you should achieve, and each should be given the proper attention and time that it requires. Once you are able to find the balance you will find much happiness and meaning in everyday life. The first of which would be your family and friends. It is very important that you spend time with your family and give them the proper attention that they want and also your friends who will always be there for you when you need emotional support. The second major balance is setting a time schedule for work and school. If you plan out your day right, you will have time for both work and school. By being able to balance both time for friends and family and school and work, you will be able to set goals for yourself that will keep you busy and maintain the balance in life. It is very important in life that you always make time for you family and spend time with them. If you miss out on family time then your family members will notice the change and will
Demands also very significantly for "traditional" and "nontraditional" students. Tradition students mostly have school and work to worry about, because they are usually the young and fresh students either straight from high school or from another college. They have many responsibilities but are given a lot of emotional support and have much self-esteem because they are at the starting of their adult lives. "Nontraditional" students often are people usually older than 30, either returning to college for search of a better job or getting a degree in the general education just so they know they can. As in the case of Abby's family member who returned to college just to get her degree in the classics. After so much hard work and struggle she was able to earn her degree, but when graduation came no one really showed much interest. "When she offered tickets to her graduation ceremony, there was a dead silence." (Dunbar-Odom 399). For "nontraditional" students it can be very hard to return to college after so many years, and unsporting family members can make this task very hard for even the strongest mother. Drawing from my own personal experiences I would say that if you have any family members that are in college to always be supportive of what they are doing. By supporting someone with what they are doing such as what my parents are saying to me gives me hope that one day I will succeed in what I want to become. Their emotional support means a lot to me because I listen to almost everything they tell me. If it wasn't for my parents support I do not think that I would even be in college right now. My suggestion to those in currently enrolled in academe right now is to never give up on what you want to become, because one day when your
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