I hop into the passenger's side of my best friend's car and simultaneously buckle my seatbelt and crank up the A.C. Matt and I begin to laugh about how we're never going to find a summer job that pays more than seven dollars an hour. I can hardly even see him through my squinted eyes as I remember how mad I am at my sister for taking my sunglasses to work that morning. I hear my cell phone ringing and begin plunging through my purse in order to find it. I look at the caller I.D. and feel the anxiety caused by the letters MOM on the screen of my phone. I roll my eyes and think, "Did she actually go into my room and see that I didn't clean it before I left?" I pick it up on the last ring and hear my mom crying. Crying is all I hear. She says that Leslie has been in a wreck and is on her way to the hospital. I can't think straight. I can't even breathe. Matt turns to me with a panicked look on his face as he asks me what's wrong. I quickly tell him to go to the hospital. The entire drive there I have this horrible feeling that my twin sister is dead. Then and there I came to realize how often I take my life and the people in it for granted.
Never in my life have I thought that I would be without my sist
time to be solved. I often catch myself thinking about doing just that, when I remember that I might not have the opportunity to resolve what is needed. As impossible as it sounds, I actually try to avoid any conflict with my sister, or anyone for that matter. When arguments do arise, I try not to linger on them, like I selfishly used to do. "Forgive and forget" is another bit of advice I frequently began to use after the accident. There is no use in dragging on a disagreement longer than it has to. I have learned that life really is too short and too important to spend days, even minutes, just being upset with someone. Because life is so unpredictable, I try to spend as much time as I can with the people I love. I know that at any time I can lose someone close to me and even be taken from the earth myself. Having almost lost the most important person in my life, I have learned not to take precious moments and people for granted.
Leslie's wreck served as an eye opener to me, as I'm sure it did to the other members of my family. It caused me to go through a transition that ultimately had an effect on the rest of my life. What I have come to realize from this experience is something that I will always carry with me. The lesson of taking people for granted is forever imbedded in my
I think this experience has given me a second chance at life, as it did Leslie. It has allowed me to think about things in ways that neve
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