The main character in "A Birthday Remembered" is Ellen Simms. She is a woman of about 30, and she lives alone in a house in a small town. In the same town lives Tobie, who is somewhat like a daughter to her. Ellen has lived with another woman called Jackie. Tobie is the daughter of Jackie. Tobie's father is called Roger. Roger and Jackie lived together until Jackie decided to leave him to live with Ellen. Roger was very angry with Jackie because she was leaving him for a woman. Ellen thinks, that it is more because Roger feels insulted, than he is sorry for losing Jackie. Jackie took Tobie with her when she moved from Roger, and so Ellen and Jackie had to raise Tobie. When Jackie gets sick and dies, Tobie is forced to move back to her father, where she still lives at
The theme in the story is love and mother-daughter relations. Tobie's father is a bad father, who does not care about his daughter, whereas Ellen loves her. And still Tobie lives with her father.
Ellen's relationship to Tobie is very good. Jackie and Ellen raised her, until she had to move back to her father. Ellen is unsure of whether she and Jackie have done their job well or not. When Tobie comes to visit her on her birthday, she realizes that they have, and that Tobie will be all right. She and Jackie had made good parents. Ellen loves Tobie as her own daughter, even if she is not. For a moment Ellen considers what it would have been like if Tobie's friend was a girl. She believes that people choose who they want, like she chose Jackie. Perhaps she would have
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