Can comfort be found in falsities? Can security be attained through lies? Can one truly sustain a relationship based on deceit? In Shakespeare's sonnet When my love swears that she is made of truth, the speaker portrays a less poetic illustration of love through a description of his own involvement with a younger woman, and he demonstrates that love is not a picture perfect romance, but rather a relationship where two people make silent sacrifices for the good of the other person. Through his assessment of their relationship, he not only reveals his lover's true character, but he also unknowingly unveils the secret aspects of his own character. Both of them are aware that their love is essentially based on the front they put on in order to protect each other...she pretends not to be "unjust" while he pretends not to be "old." It also becomes evident, however, that they consciously accept each other's distortions of the truth not only to comfort each other, but also to comfort themselves and maintain sec
Because he seemingly accepts her distorted state of honesty while she seemingly accepts his distorted state of youthfulness, "on both sides...is simple truth suppressed." Initially, it appears that because the truth remains unsaid it somehow remains untrue within the context of their relationship, but yet this doesn't seem to be the reality of the situation since the speaker constantly emphasizes the mutual awareness of their faults throughout the sonnet (e.g.: " I do believe her, though I know she lies"; "she knows my days are past the best"; "in our faults by lies we flattered be"). Rather, they consciously indulge one another's false notions out of love for the other person, demonstrating that "love's best habit is in seeming trust." In this relationship, both the speaker and the woman realize that they are lying to each other, but yet because they don't outwardly admit to each other's faults, they make silent sacrifices in order to preserve their self-respect.
So in essence, the speaker is not describing the falsities in their r
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