But, those who are not in actuality bullies are those that think better of committing such actions. Bullying may be physical or it may occur on a psychological level. It is suggested by Olweus that an "imbalance of power" exists when bullying occurs and in fact contributes to the occurrence. .

             II. Types of Bullying.

             As stated bullying behavior may be 'direct' bullying or 'indirect' bullying. Direct bullying is an open attack on the individual. Inclusive are physical attacks such as hitting, kicking, pushing, and choking. Attacking someone verbally or through harassment such as calling of names, threatening behavior, taunting behavior, teasing in a cruel and malicious manner, spreading rumors and slandering are all inclusive. Indirect bullying is often difficult to detect much more so than direct bullying. Indirect bullying is characterized by social isolation and social exclusion on an intentional basis, making faces and obscene gestures as well as manipulation of friendships and relationships. .

             III. Common Myths Surrounding Bullying.

             Myth 1: Insecurity and low self-esteem is suffered by bullies and they in turn pick on others towards the end of making themselves feel more secure.

             Fact: Self-esteem among bullies are average to above-average however they do have temperaments that are aggressive as well as a 'lack of empathy and poor parenting.' (Starr, 2000).

             Myth 2: Bullies are looking for attention however; ignoring the bully will stop the behavior.

             Fact: control is what the bully seeks and they tend to cease their bullying when ignored however if adults do not address the issue of bullying the bully generally is propelled toward another level of bullying.

             Myth 3: Boys will act like boys. However bullies general remain bullies and eventually get involved in a life of crime.

             Fact: Of all those finishing middle school that are bullies sixty percent will have committed at least one crime by the age of 24.